The First Date

One of the most common pieces of advice women and even men give to people looking to become better in the dating scene is "JUST BE YOURSELF".

Some people see this advice as wrong because "just be yourself" requires no work, and without work one cannot get anything in life. These people that feel trying to improve oneself is the way to go in the dating scene.

Let me give you my insight on this topic.

First of all, depending on who says "just be yourself" changes the meaning.

For example