“MY WIFE DOESN’T UNDERSTAND ME ...”
There should be no question about it—in dating a married man a girl always takes a risk. Such a man is not free to take a girl out, to make love to her, or to marry her. Until he is free, he is expected to consort only with his wife, and to en-
gage in social activities where there is no pairing off with other women. Many a lonely married man seeks the companionship of an understanding woman. If she’s young, she brings him the added sensation of feeling youthful again himself. If she is sympathetic, she may meet deep emotional needs within him. He, on the other hand, may appear to her to be seasoned, wise, mature, experienced. She may feel flattered by his attention. She may be touched by confessions of how his wife misunderstands him. And before she knows it, she’s involved beyond her expectations in mixed emotions that lead all too often to heartache.
Sometimes a girl walks into such a relationship with her eyes wide open. More often, though, the man doesn’t tell the girl he’s married, for fear she won’t date him. And usually the relationship has progressed some distance before the girl is aware of the actual situation. By that time she may be too fond of the man or too sorry for him to know how to withdraw effectively. The wisest thing, of course, is for a girl to break off a relationship as soon as she discovers that a man is married.
If she can uncover his matrimonial status before she ever goes out with him, she is on still safer ground.
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