But women need that non-sexual touch. As children, we like to be cuddled. Think of how good it feels when your partner snuggles up against you. Women never lose that strong need to be held. Men need to be tuned into this desire and start that touching again. She will respond in ways that you’ll be happy with and when it comes time for the sexual touch, she’ll be much more receptive! Remember that compliments are free. When you are dating, chances are that the compliments were free-flowing. After you’ve been married awhile, the compliments start to go away.
Why? Maybe you stop noticing your partner’s appearance. Perhaps you just don’t take the time to really notice your partner. This can cause your spouse to feel hurt and rejected. It can even cause them to stop taking care of themselves and trying to be attractive for you. Even worse, it could cause them to try and look especially nice for other people. We all know what that can lead to!
As we grow older, our bodies change. It’s inevitable. Just as our bodies change, our relationships change. It can be a huge help to your relationship if you reassure your partner that you still find them attractive and sexy. Don’t assume that your partner knows this – tell them!
This is where communication is important. One woman who had been married for ten years simply came out and asked her husband, “If I ask you how I look, would you say that I look beautiful?” He asked if he should say that even if he didn’t feel like it. She told him, “Yes, I would. It helps me feel better about myself.” Her husband did this for awhile and they found their marriage improving dramatically from just a simple compliment.
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