It’s easy to assign blame all on yourself when there is a problem. Just remember that it doesn’t matter who has the initial problem, what matters is that you resolve it in a way that is best for both of you!
Change your mind set. Open yourself to the fact that any issue can be understood and interpreted in a variety of ways, otherwise you'll continue to stay in a rut and progressively dig the hole deeper with every conflict.
Take personal responsibility, but not too much! A sk yourself in what way or ways do you contribute to the situation that upsets you or your partner. Rarely if ever in an ongoing relationship does a difficulty arise that has not been contributed to by both partners.
Remember that your partner is not you . Learn to internalize and understand that your partner is not you. Your resolutions will be respectful of your differences only when you both find ways to empathize with the other's point of view.
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